As we walked along, content to giggle whenever Nkosi turned and tried to sniff them, I found myself wishing I had my wallet on me. I would have handed them some cash to take home to their mother. I didn’t even have pockets, out for a jog, carrying nothing but my keys…and two Tupperwares of food. I could have smacked myself in the face. I opened the first container and ripped my peanut butter and jelly sandwich in half, handing one to each of the boys. Then I took the carrots out of the other one, along with a small Jif to-go peanut butter container and handed those to the boys. My aunt had come home from a shopping trip with four cases of portable peanut butter containers after I told her how much I survived on peanut butter and how often we’re on the road for soccer games. Good thinking! The boys went home with a little more nourishment and a new appreciation for dogs. I went home wishing I could give them much more than a sandwich and a few carrots, but even though I’d looked forward to a post-run sandwich, carrying empty Tupperware never felt better.
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Thursday, February 2, 2012
Peanut Butter Jelly Time
Walk like an Egyptian
I think Kareem took us the back
way into the pyramids because we had a little tour of the city of Giza,
down alleyways and past trash heaps where old women sifted with sticks for
useful items. I felt like a real chump because we’re such known commodities in Bulawayo now that I no
longer feel like a tourist. But trust me, nothing will make you feel more like
a tourist than being a blond-haired American swaying regally down an Egyptian
causeway nine feet above the crowds. Meanwhile, our guides kept telling Ale how Egyptian he looks. Odd man out. Finally we reached a gate that let us into the vast area
of dunes surrounding the pyramids, Sphinx, and tombs. Whatever package we had
negotiated for through clouds of incense included a look at the three large
pyramids, one tomb, and the Sphinx. We snapped pictures in front of the
pyramids, spelunked into a pretty cool tomb, and sauntered past the Sphinx.
I’ll let the pictures do the talking. The chance to see the pyramids and the
significant workout I got from gripping the camel with my legs on sandy 30
degree inclines made the detour from sterile airport life well worth it.
Monday, January 23, 2012
New GRS Zimbabwe Video!
Check out this video - the staff and coaches in this documentary
are the very people I work with every single day in Zimbabwe . They are incredibly
dedicated and passionate.
Just stopped by the orphanage to set up a soccer game for Saturday
morning. I'm going to drop off some cleats for the soccer players and get some
pictures (thanks Brown family!). The orphanage has an awesome vibe and I can't
wait to start spending more time there. Patience, the social worker in charge,
chatted with me today to set up Saturday and then came out to the car to meet
Nkosi. She said we should bring him this weekend - the kids will love him. It's
the first time she'd patted a dog's head, she said. Dogs are not pets in Zimbabwe , and
definitely not members of the family like Nkosi is! I found out the kids call
Patience 'Sistah P', so from now on she will officially be Sis P, and no more
of this Patience stuff.
So far we've just been settling back in and handling a rush of
reports due on 31 January. Yesterday we went to Makokoba for dinner with
Esnath, our Zimbabwean mom, and her EXTENDED family. I mean extended. Dinner in
the ghetto in Bulawayo
means blaring music and every relative you ever had crammed into a tiny flat
until they're spilling out the door. It was a very very memorable evening,
right down to the two live chickens we purchased in the market and stewed all
afternoon to eat with the sadza. Pictures and a full update to come! This is a
quick fix because internet has been terrible lately. We were down all weekend
and only got it back at 5pm today.
More to come. GO PATS!
Tuesday, January 3, 2012
Emthunzini Wethemba
Imagine 65 children, all orphans,
living under one roof. Now imagine that 95% of those who are eligible for
school attend classes every single day and that all 65 of them are clothed,
fed, and cared for by only a few dedicated community members. This is
Emthunzini Wethemba, an orphanage in Mziligazi
Township that can’t even
afford to pay all of its employees. The chief administrator is retained on a
volunteer basis, and all of the employees care for the children as if they were
their own. This is the reality of Zimbabwe :
AIDS orphans have become Zimbabwe ’s
children because too many of Zimbabwe ’s
children have become AIDS orphans.
By 2009 more than 1 million children, or 71% of all the orphans
in Zimbabwe ,
had been orphaned by AIDS. Several weeks ago, as I prepared to leave for a
brief visit to the United
States before returning to continue my work
with Grassroot Soccer in January 2012, I was searching for a deserving school
to collect supplies for. I had been planning to collect clothing from family
and friends as best I could when an old friend contacted me with a better
solution: Aiden Cudhea, my buddy from Thetford
Elementary school in Vermont , and his dad Cameron, would hold a clothing drive at Aiden’s school. I went in search of a recipient for
the clothing and donations in the weeks before my return to the U.S. , and a
Zimbabwean acquaintance pointed me in the direction of Emthunzini Wethemba.
What I found is going to change the nature of my relationship with the city of Bulawayo , and I can’t wait to begin playing soccer with
the kids at the home and volunteering at the shelter on a weekly basis when I
return to Bulawayo
next week. Emthunzini Wethemba is a truly amazing place. I wanted to share my
glimpse into life at the shelter, and I will continue to post stories and
pictures as I volunteer there during the next 5 months.
Despite the seemingly overwhelming odds stacked against AIDS orphans
and the crippling lack of resources in Zimbabwe ,
Emthunzini Wethemba offers hope to the children of Bulawayo . The shelter’s mission is
refreshingly simple:
1)
To
restore youth to a state of physical, emotional, and spiritual well being
sufficient for them to return to a normal lifestyle, preferably within the
framework of their family or social structure.
2)
To
equip them with entrepreneurial skills and empower them with attitudes and
behaviors necessary for employment.
In pursuit of goal number one, the home employs a young
social worker named Patience on a volunteer basis. Patience graduated from the University of Zimbabwe with a degree in social work
and psychology. She recently returned to her hometown of Bulawayo to take over the reigns as chief
administrator at Emthunzini Wethemba. Patience sets the daily schedule at the
home and cares for the children in every way, from setting the daily menu to
chasing down the youngest boys attempting to shirk their daily bath. When I
arrived at the home at 8:30am on a Thursday morning, Patience explained with an
exasperated eye roll that the children were almost ready to greet me but it
would be a few minutes because the “big girls” were still finishing with their
morning baths and “getting ready.” Apparently teenagers will be teenagers no
matter what the time zone or latitude. I laughed and could immediately feel the
sense of normalcy and family that pervades the home despite its dilapidated
physical appearance and the tragic circumstances that land young people on its
doorstep.
It didn’t take long to discover that Patience is the
force behind the discipline and love which are so pivotal to helping the kids
regain their sense of normalcy, structure, and hope. As chief administrator,
Patience organizes schooling, meals, recreation, chores, and educational
enrichment for the children 24/7. All but a handful of the 65 children at
Emthunzini are currently attending school in the neighboring community of
Mziligazi. Patience tells me proudly that several children have also earned
scholarships to local private high schools thanks to their academic
performance. The handful of children not attending school consists of those who
are beyond schooling age and three who are mentally challenged. The home is
currently investigating options for these children, including vocational
training for the older children and special needs schools for the children with
disabilities. When I visited Emthunzini Wethemba on 15 December, the children
were on holiday from school, but Patience had set up a schedule which included
morning chores and two hours each of morning and afternoon study time because,
she explained, she wants the children to stay intellectually engaged even
during their school breaks. This, of course, leads us to goal number two:
equipping the children with skills to return to society as productive adults.
The children live in dorm-style buildings of concrete and
brick. I had the opportunity to visit both the girls’ and boys’ dormitories,
and despite the fact that the living spaces lack rugs, lamps and many of the
comforts we are accustomed to, their wooden bunk beds, brightly colored sheets,
and the stuffed animal tucked neatly by each pillow gave an aura of summer camp
which made me hopeful that the children are happy here. They certainly seem to
be, and the youngest kids loved posing for my camera and were proud to show off
the bedrooms they carefully maintain during morning chores. Patience showed me
through all the school’s facilities and we made our way to several fields of
crops behind the dormitory buildings. The children learn how to farm covo,
spinach, and other vegetables at Emthunzini Wethemba. They gather mangoes and bananas
from several trees on the property, and have duties to help cook at every meal
using the vegetables they have helped to raise.
Patience showed me a concrete building behind the
dormitories that is under renovation. She explained that the city laws
do not allow the shelter to retain children over 19 years of age. The 65 children
she had introduced me to that morning ranged in age from 5 to 23. The kids older than 19 have graduated from high school and by law they are adults and should be removed from the
orphanage. But with 80% unemployment plaguing the country, these young adults
with few marketable skills would be thrown back onto the streets of Bulawayo from whence many
of them came. Therefore, the shelter continues to provide for these older
orphans and gives them increased leadership and mentoring opportunities within
the home. Patience is currently working on a project to secure vocational
training for the older children at the home. These young adults would then teach
classes for the younger kids in order to earn their room and board at the
shelter, creating a sustainable model for vocational training and giving the
older children productive and fulfilling employment. Patience showed me
woodworking equipment and even a pottery wheel in a storage room at the
orphanage but explained that the shelter stopped offering classes for its
children several years ago when money dried up in the city and no one would
volunteer to teach the classes or teach for a modest allowance. Hopefully, now
that the economy has sputtered back to life and is growing slowly, Patience
will be able to find someone willing to train the older children so that they
can breathe new life into vocational classes at Emthunzini Wethemba.
Through donations from friends and family and the efforts
of Aiden and Cameron, I have arranged to bring many donated clothes back to Zimbabwe this
week to give to the children at Emthunzini Wethemba. My neighbors, the Brown
Family, collected and donated more than 20 pairs of gently used youth soccer cleats.
I also have more than $300 donated by my grandmother and aunt which I will use
to take Patience on a shopping trip to Fazak’s, the local department store,
upon my return to Zimbabwe .
Patience explained that the shelter needs everything from pots and pans to
curtains, sheets, light bulbs, toiletries, garden tools, utensils, paint
brushes, cough medicine, children’s underwear….the list goes on and on. We hope
to address a few of these needs.
If you are interested in supporting the kids at
Emthunzini Wethemba, please contact me and let me know
(dereks@grassrootsoccer.org). You can make a donation to my intern fund online
at www.derekinafrica2011.blospot.com
and I will use any funds you earmark for the orphanage to help Patience
purchase supplies. I can then provide you with a list of exactly what we
purchased with your donation so you can see how you contributed! Patience also
explained to me that she is trying to set up a new relationship with donors
through a program called Friends of Emthunzini Wethemba. Donors may
register as a friend to the home for a monthly minimum subscription of $5. This
contribution of only $60 for the entire year will serve to raise funds for the
daily needs of the home (volunteer stipends, groceries, electric and water
bills) and generate income for long term projects such as the training of older
members of the Emthunzini family to stay on as vocational counselors and
mentors for younger children. I will continue to provide updates and pictures
as I deliver the first round of supplies to the orphanage and as our
relationship with Emthunzini Wethemba grows this year through soccer games and
volunteer work. Thank you for the continued support!
The youth cleats, donated by the Brown family of Hudson, MA, are ready for the journey to Bulawayo. Thank you!
Friday, December 9, 2011
Mrs. Marube
I went for a run this
morning like I usually do when we don’t have training. It was grey and overcast
and a nice temperature for a jog. I never meet any other joggers and I usually
feel a little foolish passing hundreds of people walking to work while I bounce
along with my wrap-around ear-buds hooked up to my ipod. Sure, it’s only a 1gig
shuffle and it’s about 4 years old, but still. I always greet the people I pass
with either “good morning” or “livugile” and most are incredibly friendly,
breaking into huge smiles. That’s just how Zimbabweans are.
As I turned onto the home stretch this morning, running
down a road bordered by abandoned, trash-covered fields next to the smelly
river that surrounds the city, I passed an older mother with two children tending
a small patch of corn. Exams ended last week and school is out for the
holidays, so I was happy to know that these two kids are usually at school at
8am on a Friday. But today they were helping their mother with her urban
farming. Many families in Bulawayo
engage in urban farming, raising crops such as rape and maize on small patches
of soil surrounded by crumbling flats and trash-filled alleys. Most patches of
arable land in the city are taken up by small gardens and people often carry
water long distances to keep their crops alive.
I greeted the mother as I jogged past the farming family,
one of many moving methodically through patches of red soil between the road
and the river, hoeing and weeding. Two hundred yards down the road I slid open
the heavy black car gate to our yard that squeals like a banshee and really
needs to be oiled, and went in to retrieve my camera. Jogging back up the road,
camera in hand, I felt foolish again. I wasn’t even sure why I’d brought my
camera. My object was not to get a picture for my own use, but to possibly make
a copy and give it to the mother and her family if they were neighbors. I’ve
seen urban farming going on since we arrived 5 months ago and most of all I
just wanted to talk to them and gain some insight into their daily life. Yet I
didn’t want to seem like an annoying kiwha or a tourist. I guess it helped that
when the mother asked where I stay I was able to point up the road and show her
our house, one of the more modest in her very own neighborhood.
I greeted the mother first and all three stopped working
and looked up. Their field wasn’t really a field – the tilled rectangle of land
bordered by the burned remnants of other families’ trash piles measured no more
than 10 x 20 meters, and I noticed that half of it was filled with weeds. The
mother was heavy set and wore the traditional chitenge skirt and a head
wrap. She was very sturdily built, and it was clear that her arms and hands had
seen many seasons of planting. After an exchange of ‘good mornings’ she introduced
herself as Mrs. Marube. I asked her what she was growing (even though I
suspected corn), and she cried “maize!” to which I responded, somewhat
stupidly, “well, it’s a very nice crop.” At this she snorted, “It could be, but
there is no rain,” and pointed to the highest of her corn plants, explaining that
all the plants would be this height if the rains had come on schedule. It is
now mid-December and we’ve had almost no rain in Bulawayo . The rainy season is supposed to
start in October. The lack of rain has been wreaking havoc throughout the
country because farmers are afraid to plant too early for fear of drought and
lost crops. In the case of Mrs. Marube’s corn, she’d lost more than half to the
lack of rain – the section that appeared full of weeds was actually the other
half of her field where the corn seedlings had failed to sprout.
I gestured toward the larger field behind us, bordering
the river that doubles as a sewer, and asked why it was not planted. “He just
planted yesterday,” she explained. “He waited because of the rain, but finally
he could not wait any longer. The seasons, they are changing. We should have
rain in October but still we have none.” She shook her head and asked where I
stay. Turns out she stays just up the road so we’re neighbors, and the family
grows the corn to supplement their income. I didn’t ask further but I assume
they sell it to the vendors who then grill it on the side of the road and sell
an ear for 6 rand (75 cents). The kids had crept closer as we talked, and I gave
each of them a high five and asked how they were. They responded shyly and
smiled. Kids in Zimbabwe
are incredibly well-behaved and very reserved. Mrs. Marube started to resume
hoeing the ground in front of her, and sensing that there was work to be done,
I thanked her and asked her if I could take a picture. She asked what I wanted
it for and when I told her I would make a copy and bring it to her, she said,
“but I am so dirty!” Indeed, the front of her white blouse and her arms, hands,
and knees were covered with dirt. I said I would return another time and
thanked her. She smiled and resumed her work and I jogged back up the road to take
a bucket shower and go to work.
Mrs. Marube and her family represent one tiny example of
how the seasons really are changing in Sub-Saharan Africa. When we first
arrived we kept asking locals when the rains would come. It was the end of the
dry season and everyone was complaining about the heat (niya chisa!), insisting
that the seasons had shifted. I dismissed their comments as exaggeration and
alarmism. It seemed so strange to me that a hot-button topic and subject of
heated debates in liberal bastions of America should be on the tips of
people’s tongues in a nation reeling from one of the worst economic meltdowns in
history. Don’t they have better things to worry about? Why are they running
around talking about climate change? Are they just saying it to me because I’m
American or because I’m white and they think I’ll want to talk about it?
No - now that I’ve been here a few months, heard from
people from all walks of life about the shifting seasons, and witnessed the
effects on farmers large and small, my opinion is changing. Zimbabweans talk
about climate change amongst themselves. It is a real issue for them. Regardless
of whether the change is due to human activity or not, the results are real. It’s
not about being liberal or conservative. It’s about identifying a problem and
using the resources we have to address it for the good of people less fortunate
than ourselves. It’s a bonus that we too will benefit from lower emissions,
more sustainable sources of energy, and cleaner air. And don’t we have a moral
imperative to address this issue if there is a chance it might alleviate
negative effects for people like Mrs. Marube and result in research
which could produce cleaner air and energy security for the foreseeable future?
It is so cosmically unfortunate that due to weather
patterns, the pollution contributed by the wealthiest countries ends up
affecting climates in some of the poorest areas of the world where people
already live on the margins of survival. Sub-Saharan Africa
is one of the areas most affected by climate change. We, as Americans, are in a
position to make change. The privileged always are. I was so proud of the
taxpayers of America after
reading this article about the impact that PEPFAR has had on the fight against
HIV and AIDS in Africa : http://www.forbes.com/sites/jamesglassman/2011/12/02/how-to-build-on-success-against-aids-in-africa/
. The American people have contributed billions to the fight, whether they know
it or not, and we can’t stop there.
But why doesn’t the same hold for climate change? If you
don’t believe in global warming, agree to disagree. But doesn’t it make sense
to reduce emissions and seek more sustainable solutions anyway? It’s a win-win
situation. We’re going to need them eventually. There is no debate about whether
the negative effects of pollution are real. People on the ground, people who
have food security issues without throwing drought into the mix, are being
affected, so let’s do something about it. It starts in Durban , at the climate conference going on right
now. Let’s get the right demographic represented there, and let’s take
responsibility, as the most powerful nation in world, for leading the way. I
really enjoyed reading this article today about that climate conference going
on in Durban South Africa, although it indicates that real progress may be
years away - it was a particularly timely read given my conversation with Mrs.
Marube this morning. Check it out: http://allafrica.com/stories/201112061052.html
Sunday, December 4, 2011
Esnath and Mattias
I can’t believe I haven’t written about Esnath yet. It’s criminal. Esnath is our Zimbabwean mom, and a wonderful lady. When Ale and I first arrived in Zimbabwe , we stayed at a lodge next to the GRS offices. Esnath keeps house at the lodge, and as we passed 3 weeks there while GRS looked for a house for us to rent in Bulawayo , we bonded with Esnath during many nights without electricity. Esnath cooks the best sadza I’ve ever tasted, and there’s just nothing like a home-cooked Zimbabwean meal when the zesa (power) fails. Eventually the time came for us to move into a new home not far from the office or the lodge. One afternoon before we moved, Ale and I looked at each other and realized how much we were going to miss Esnath and Mattias, the security guard at the lodge. We’d now become very close with both, sharing pictures and stories of our families over meals and staying in the tiny dining room, just the four of us, to chat long after we’d finished eating dinner. Although we live a few blocks from the lodge now, Ale and I have dinner with Esnath and Mattias at least once per week at the lodge. Esnath and Mattias are like family now, and Esnath calls us her Kiwha sons.
Mattias is a wiry young man, probably in his mid-thirties, with a gap in his teeth and an ever-present smile. He is soft-spoken, with an accent that differentiates him from most of the other Zimbabweans we meet. He provides all-night security at the lodge 5 nights per week. Mattias is one of the Tonga people from Binga, on the shores of Lake Kariba . He speaks Ndebele, English, Shona, and of course his native Tonga . He has a heart of gold and is a talented bike mechanic, and somehow he functions on only 3 to 4 hours’ sleep per night, riding his bike nearly 20 kilometers to work every day. One night after our truck had broken down for the millionth time, Esnath was afraid to allow us to walk home alone from the lodge. Mattias grabbed his bike, walked us home, and then returned to the lodge. While at the house he inspected our locks and our gate (this was shortly after we’d been robbed the first time) and made recommendations for our safety. Mattias has only 2 kids right now but says he wants 5. That way there will be at least one who decides to stay home and care for the aging parents!
Esnath is fromBulawayo and has 5 children at home. She has been working at the lodge for years and stays in Bulawayo , away from her kids, for the six days per week that she works. When she hops in a combi (commuter bus) to go home, she brings her wages and checks on the kids. One of the older girls does all the cooking at home and gets her siblings to school every day. One day Esnath told us that her daughter had been sent home from school because she’d been late to pay the $110 school fee. For someone who makes $200 per month, that’s a very steep fee. Luckily her daughter is now back at school, but it makes one realize how precious education is. And how inaccessible it can be in Zimbabwe . The net secondary school attendance stands at only around 50%, and an acute shortage of books and supplies plagues most learning institutions and limits the quality of education. I just hope that as the economy here continues to strengthen, education will be prioritized. Sure, the few prestigious boys’ and girls’ private schools in Zimbabwe continue to flourish and offer excellent educations – some of the best for teens in Sub-Saharan Africa. But on the whole, for the average Zimbabwean child, getting a complete education is an uphill battle. Unfortunately, finding an opportunity to apply that education is even tougher. Unemployment peaked at 95% in 2009, forcing many family providers to seek opportunities elsewhere and draining the nation of wealth and expertise. The result is a loss of industry and a persistent lack of job opportunities. For people like Esnath and Mattias, life is far from easy. They work hard day in and day out for themselves and their children, yet unlike many parents in the US , they cannot be confident in a better future for the next generation. They just have to pray and hope for it. However, they can be proud that they both emphasize education and are dedicated to their families. I know I’m thankful that Esnath and Mattias are who they are. They’re two of the reasons I feel at home here in Bulawayo .
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